Enjoy the Holidays Unplugged: Fun Activities with Family and Friends

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With the holiday season in full swing, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of crowded shopping malls, long lines, online shopping, gift wrapping, holiday parties, and scrolling through fun updates on friends’ feeds. Don’t forget to take time as the year wraps up to step back with your family and friends and spend some memorable moments together. Here are some ideas from Team DijiWise and our families for unplugging from tech and spending quality time together.

From Stacy, DijiWise Development

Visit a senior care center

“My daughter’s favorite memories of spending time together unplugged are our annual visits to local senior care facilities. Over the last several years we have gone to various locations with different groups of friends and families. Armed with care packages, poinsettias, and hearts filled with giving spirit, we sing carols and visit with the residents. The smiles and gratitude that we receive are so rewarding. This is a great way to give back to your local community and bring the holiday spirit to those who need it.”  To arrange, give your local senior center a call, ask for their wish list and schedule the best time to visit.

Adopt a family

In every community, there are families that have fallen on hard times or are having difficulties making ends meet.  What better way to unplug and give back than to adopt a family in need. “One year, we contacted a local church that had a list of several families that could use some holiday spirit. The family that we chose had a very simple wish list of winter gear to keep them warm and just a few toys for each child to make their season bright. Seeing the faces and meeting the children that received our package was a great memory for our family.” Contact your local church or shelter today to see how you can help.

From Cindy, DijiWise PR

Have a hot chocolate party

Spend an afternoon as a family creating and trying different hot chocolate flavors. “It’s a little out of the ordinary, but is a fun and tasty thing to do. My kids enjoy it and it’s especially fun to do with a few relatives or friends.” It’s a great theme for hosting a small gathering, too. Have everyone bring a different type of hot chocolate - purchased or “invented” - for sharing.

Discover a local event or festival

Check calendars near where you live for festive events or displays you go can go to together that only happen this time of year. “We try to find something new each year, and even look beyond our city but within reasonable driving distance. It breaks up our daily routine, and by doing this, we’ve even found a historical Christmas festival with Santas from around the world that we now look forward to each year.

Get together one-on-one or as a small group

Sprinkle small meetups throughout the holidays and enjoy special quality time, attention, conversations and fun you might not get when you're all together as a big group. “I come from a large family and this is something my brother started doing this time of year with family and friends. The time together with just our families was so enjoyable and special, that I’ve followed suit and make an effort now to have one-on-one time with people during the holidays.” It can be an afternoon date alone with your child, the two of you getting together with an uncle or cousins you don't see often, or inviting your child’s friend to come along. Grab a bite to eat, relax at home together or check out a holiday display. These small get togethers will fill your heart and become one of your favorite traditions to this time of year.

From Diana, DijiWise Marketing

Host a winter potluck

Have a fun, low-stress potluck party where everyone brings a dish to share. “I love getting together with friends and trying our different homemade dishes. A lot of family recipes get made, from potstickers to double chocolate cookies, so it’s really neat learning about and getting a taste of everyone’s backgrounds.” Have the kids help you with the cooking and they’ll feel accomplished when everyone’s raving about the dish.   

Take a walk and enjoy the holiday cheer

Bundle up and head outside to enjoy the fresh air and holiday lights! From your neighborhood to the town center, holiday decorations are popping up so go ahead and take a family stroll at dusk. “I’m an outdoorsy person, so when the cold weather rolls in, I try not to forget that there’s a whole world outside of my window! Walking around the neighborhood in the winter is such a treat with lights twinkling on rooftops and inside homes. It’s great quality time, either by myself or with family, and I always feel rejuvenated.”

Other ideas for special time with family and friends during the holidays:

Painting class

Spend family time learning a new skill. This is a popular new trend and fun to do together, regardless of your talents! Many local painting studios have special sessions during the holiday season with families in mind. Classes are designed for novice painters and taught in a simple step-by-step manner so that everyone can become an artist and create some beautiful work. Even better, give your finished art as a gift, contribute it to a local business or and deliver it to a local senior center to brighten up their common area and resident’s rooms.

Local theater

Check out your community newspaper for musicals, plays and family concerts in the area, especially if this isn't something you already do together. Many groups do free shows during the holidays which makes this an affordable activity for all to enjoy.

It’s not about the presents or the parties (or capturing every moment with a selfie). It’s about the season of giving and making memories with your family that will last a lifetime.

Happy Holiday’s from our family to yours.

A Balancing Act: Online vs. Offline

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Our smartphones seem to be attached to us in one way or another. They’re that rectangular bulge in our back pockets, that extra limb extending from our palms. We use our phones to capture a lot of important moments: our kid’s first day on the school bus, a family reunion with four generations lined up together, or summer road trip adventures across the states. But on social media interspersed with photos and videos of these memories are the BLT sandwich your co-worker had for lunch and the beach selfie your best friend posted. National Public Radio’s post Should We Live Life, Or Capture It? discusses our understandable human urge to record and share moments in our lives while encouraging us to live in the moment instead of through the lens.

Being thoughtful in deciding when to use our smartphones and when to be fully engaged eye-to-eye can bring out the best of our online and offline worlds. As great as our smartphones are, their constant presence in our lives isn’t always appropriate. This topic takes on a new set of considerations when placed in the classroom. In many schools, kids are allowed to carry their phones with them throughout the day. Guidelines vary from school to school, and this Safe Search Kids post about Cell Phones In School compares the pros and cons of the situation. As parents, we can teach our kids about how to balance their online and offline time at school and throughout their lives.

 

In school

Schools seek balance for cellphones in class: Are they a teaching tool or a distraction? 
by The Boston Globe
With policies ranging from BYOD (bring your own device) to restricted use, schools are handling the complex topic of tech in classrooms with varied approaches. This article offers a candid look into how schools in Massachusetts and New York are figuring out the logistics.

17 Pros and Cons of Using iPads in the Classroom
by SecurEdge
With iPads appearing in schools as teaching devices, this list explains some of the realities that we can expect with this new classroom technology.

 

In social gatherings

Why Snapchat Has Ruined Our Nights Out
by The Odyssey
We think the author of this post says it best, “Capturing the moment is one thing, capturing every single moment for your snap story and therefore experiencing the moment through your phone camera is another.”

‘Pics or it didn’t happen’ – the mantra of the Instagram era
by The Guardian
Teenagers constantly spout the saying “pics or it didn’t happen” when capturing moments with their smartphone, and this article dives into revealing why it’s so important for people to feel recognized and heard on social media.

 

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Summer Adventures in Tech

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With school out for the summer, it's a great time for kids to explore their interests in technology. Being unplugged is invaluable, but so is finding the benefits of technology. We love this article from the Family Online Safety Institute about How to Incorporate Tech into Summer Fun. Using technology to enhance learning and creativity helps kids engage with the digital world thoughtfully instead of mindlessly.

A digital playground for learning
If your kids love video games like Minecraft, show them that they can create games like the ones they love. Tech Rocket provides kids with fun online courses that dive into code, game design, and graphic design. It's an awesome site that allows kids to explore their interests in technology.

We also love Common Sense Media's section Learning with Technology, a useful resource for discovering educational apps and asking questions about kids and tech. From simulations of historical events to games about empathy, there's a lot to explore with technology!

Balance is key
The digital world can be a positive and immersive playground but good screen time habits are important. A balance of offline and online time is key, and these helpful articles give advice on how to establish screen time guidelines:

Setting Limits on Screen Time
by Parenting

How to Tell Relatives, Teachers, Babysitters, and Even Your Spouse Your Screen Time Rules
by Common Sense Media

 

With the last month of summer quickly approaching, we hope to make it a stellar one with and without tech. Stay DijiWise!

 

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#MakingMemories: How to Make the Most of Time Unplugged Together with Your Teenager

Take that little red bar on the battery icon on your phone or tablet as an opportunity: time to put down devices, look up at each other and make some memories. Let’s take a break from multi-tasking, give our necks and thumbs a rest, and add some spice to our lives with experiences, together.

The importance of unplugging is not cliche. If you live in a home with teenagers, chances are schedules are already busy and small talk in passing has become the norm. Let alone if you live in a home with smartphones, mobile devices, wireless this and streaming that, you’re more connected -- to something, but not always to each other. It’s the pace and lifestyle of today, but time together is the ultimate power source to our lives. Without it, happiness and relationships drain to a little red bar.

Got it. Unplug. Together. Sounds easy enough. Until your next email or status update pops up and unplugging is already pushed to the back burner. Before you let that happen, here are a few tips to make the most of your time unplugged with your kids:

  • Make the time. If you don’t make it a priority on a daily, weekly or monthly basis, schedules will get in the way and before you know it, you’ll have missed seasonal opportunities to do something new and different and too much time will have passed since the last time you unplugged and got lost in doing something together.

  • Create a checklist or a fun, visual board listing things you want to do together and keep it displayed as a reminder.  The list can include easy to do activities, tasks you can get done together, and new experiences for everyone to try. And don’t forget to get input - let your teenager weigh in so he or she contributes and feels supported. Let them know this is as much about them as it is about getting to spend time together one-on-one or as a family. (Extra tip: Be sure to include #BeSpontaneous! on your list for the thrill of going with the flow and enjoying whatever sparks your interest that day.)

  • Keep it fun. This is a suggestion for the types of things to do, as well a friendly reminder for the frame of mind you and your teen can embrace during your time together. Break outside of your comfort zone and do something new. Remember, there might be a little give and take, too! You might be doing something that never would have crossed your mind but interests your daughter or son, and he or she may likely be doing the same for you! And while it may be tempting, these shouldn’t be assignments. Don’t put everyday chores on this list unless it’s a project or something out of the ordinary you normally don’t do together and would enjoy accomplishing together.

  • Share a status update - in person. Knowing things about our parents, their lives and our relatives is special knowledge we carry with our our whole life through, and even pass on to our children, nieces and nephews. It also makes us more connected to each other. This is no different with our own children. When you’re unplugged together, share something about yourself, your family growing up, something they never would have known about you, or even something about your child that captivates you. Let them in. Make them laugh and help them realize “my mom or dad is just as human as I am.” This is the perfect time to “post” - in person, and they’ll “like” you for it many years down the road.

  • Live in the moment. Approach your day and activity with an open mind and happiness for the time and experience you’re about to have together. That means not stressing or worrying about anything that happened earlier that day or feeling pressure that you’re not getting something else done. Be present in the moment, which we sometimes aren’t when devices are nearby. You may even make a wrong turn, break something or make a mess doing whatever it is you’re enjoying together. That’s okay. You’re #MakingMemories.

To help you brainstorm a few ideas before you unplug from technology as a family, check out our board “Unplugged Together” on Pinterest. You can also Tweet ideas or share how you spend your time together to @DijiWise using the hashtag #MakingMemories.

 

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