Movie Review: Screenagers - Growing Up in the Digital Age

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“Why don’t you get off your (device) and go outside and play?”

“If you don’t get (chore) done, then you can’t play on your (device).”

“But Mom, I need my (device) to get my homework done.”

"I'm tired of competing with your devices."

"These video games are ruining your brain".

Can you relate?

This is part of the daily struggle in many homes with teens and tweens. Technology has given us the ability to connect, multitask, be productive, be entertained, gain knowledge and more. But how much is too much?

Screen time and the effects of digital media are at the forefront of many people’s minds in today’s culture, and a new film takes the topic head on.

We had the opportunity to screen “Screenagers,” a film produced by Dr. Delaney Ruston that explores how excessive screen time is affecting our kids and today’s families.

A medical doctor from Seattle, WA, and a parent navigating her own journey with her children in the constant struggle over the balance between screen time and real life, Dr. Ruston decided to make Screenagers because “she believes deeply in the importance of helping kids find balance in our tech-filled world.” Her film has been featured at film festivals across the country.

The fact that she’s still figuring out the screen/life balance herself as a parent immediately creates a connection between the film’s parent audience and her “character,” the narrator. In the film, college professors, bloggers, researchers and others weigh in on how overuse is truly damaging this generation. Studies show excessive screen time stunts brain development, creates an inability to focus, and reduces cognitive and communication skills.  

We get a glimpse into the filmmaker’s own life and the lives of everyday people who share personal stories about the impact of technology and screen usage within their homes, and the turbulence it creates. From one girl’s experience of her “bra selfie” gone viral to another boy’s excessive video game playing that landed him in rehab for his “addiction,” something hits home to all of us: this is real. It is what is happening in families, at school, after school and in societies across the world today. The question is, what are we going to do about it?

Experts showcased in the film offer constructive advice to parents about the action that needs to take place within our communities, our classrooms, and most importantly, in our homes. They advise it starts by examining ourselves as parents and our own screen addictions. To shift screen usage to a healthy place and minimize its harmful impact on our personalities and habits, we must realize it truly takes a village, but the first step is at home, empowering our kids.

Our overall takeaway from the movie is the message it drives home about the importance of families establishing rules and boundaries on tech usage in and away from the house. The most significant tip all parents can tackle is teaching children from the start how to self-regulate their screen time.


Here are some other suggestions from Screenagers:

  1. Set up a tech contract for EVERYONE in the family, parents included! Have your kids help set the rules.

  2. Make “screen-free” time. One day a week, certain hours of the day, or even better, set up a tech-free vacation.

  3. Set time limits - give the brain a chance to rest


In an interview with the NY Timesdirector Dr. Delaney Ruston stated, “I want to spark a movement to get everyone, from parents to policymakers, to watch the movie, then have a “town hall” style conversation afterward about how we can best help kids lead more balanced lives.”

Screenagers is a must see for parents and kids. It offers the right combination of relatable characters and light-hearted humor to captivate the audience and allow us to do some silent self-evaluating of our own screen habits. A bit ironic to encourage more screen time, we know, but the film is eye-opening for parents who’ll discover they are not alone in the challenge of raising the first all-digital generation.  

Check out the Screenagers website to see if there’s a screening near you or to inquire about bringing it to your community or school.  

 

Start the Conversation: Back to School Social Media Tips for Parents

“Back to School” time can be a crazy and chaotic experience for parents and kids. We spend the better part of two weeks with lists in hand, getting prepared for the Big Day. From shopping for school clothes and making sure skirts and shorts are “finger-tip” length, to trekking to several stores to find the mysterious yellow binder that’s needed for History class, there is no better way to spend the last glorious days of summer than getting ready to go back to school.

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Reflecting on the experience and what it means for families, the first word that comes to mind is NEW. With new clothes, new supplies, new teachers and new school year come new friends, new connections -- and exposure to new mobile apps, new websites and new situations.

Now that the mountains of back to school paperwork are filled out, morning routines are established, and last-minute trips for supplies are complete, take time to start the conversation with your child about digital responsibility. Establish your family rules and develop your game plan. Use these tips as a guideline:

 

  1. Check privacy settings on apps and websites they use. Do it together! As parents, we are always learning, too!

  2. Chat about connections. Life is not a popularity contest. Encourage your kids to keep connections to people they know IRL (in real life) and discuss new contacts you see on their “friends” lists you haven't met yet.

  3. Discuss being careful about what you share and when you share it. Aside from never sharing personal information like phone number, address or password, cover why it's important they don't don’t share their location. A good rule of thumb is posting “after the fact” - after the party, or as you are leaving a location rather than while you are there.

  4. Have a two-way conversation about cyberbullying. These are conversations, not lectures, and we can empower our teens and pre-teens by finding out what they have to say. Ask them what they think about cyberbullying, and discuss how to recognize it, handle it, and not contribute to it. This will let them know it's okay to talk about it at home, and feel more comfortable speaking up to you or a trusted adult or teacher if the see someone harassing another person.

  5. Avoid digital drama. Not to be confused with cyberbullying, digital drama is like a tiff or dispute that could happen in real life, that occurs online on often spirals out control in comments, with shares, etc. Common Sense Media has some great tips on how to avoid the drama online

  6. Remember the Golden Rule. Help them understand digital responsibility applies to all of us - kids and adults. Remind them of the importance and benefit of treating others as they expect to be treated. Be kind online!

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PRESS RELEASE: PARENT ENTREPRENEURS CREATE DIJIWISE APP TO PROMOTE DIGITAL RESPONSIBILITY

DIJIWISE APP GIVES PARENTS NEW WAY TO START CONVERSATIONS WITH TWEENS AND TEENS

DETROIT & ST. LOUIS -- Social media is a mainstay in the life of many 5th grade to high school-age kids, and with that comes the importance of understanding digital responsibility. That’s why a group of parents with technology, digital and media backgrounds have created DijiWise, an easy-to-use mobile app that keeps parents connected with their kids’ social media activity in real-time to inspire conversations about the moments they share online.

While most parents want to be aware of their child’s online world, 40 percent don’t check their child’s social media, and 1/3 know the password to at least one of their child’s social accounts (Pew Research). With social media usage starting as young as pre-teen years, the importance of education about digital responsibility is critical, no matter the age.

“DijiWise is a company with a cause. Digital parenting and helping our kids understand the benefits and challenges of online behavior and social media is a new responsibility parents have,” states the founding team at DijiWise. “Conversations can become a lost art with busy schedules and technology. Our goal in creating this app is to remove the complexity for parents and encourage conversations.”

DijiWise is available for download for iOS and Android. It features a low-cost subscription via In-App purchase for $4.99 per month - peace of mind and parental engagement for the cost of a cup of coffee.

App features:

      Dashboard view with real-time updates on social media activity that helps parents interpret actions or inactions, stay familiar with kids’ peer groups, and save time by eliminating the need to hop website to website

      Ability to monitor up to 4 profiles across Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, with more to come

      Save feature that enables parents to save an activity as a prompt to discuss later

      Ability to personalize notification settings and activity you’d like to receive notifications for

      Tips and trends on digital parenting, social media and teens

 

The company is led by women who have spent their careers in media and technology, including Stacy Kania, Director of Platform & Product Development, and Cindy Kerber Spellman, the company’s VP of Strategy & Community Development. Both moms whose intersecting career and parenting experiences have heightened their awareness of the importance of digital responsibility as their children grow.

“What digital responsibility and social media usage mean family to family may be different, and that’s ok. If we can empower parents and teens to be comfortable with the subject and become more aware of our digital footprints, then we’re making huge strides in responsibly enjoying the great things social media makes possible,” noted Kerber Spellman.

 

A DijiWise Community

Beyond the app, through outreach and partnerships, DijiWise is committed to encouraging a community of DijiWise families who practice online responsibility. The Parent Central section on the DijiWise website gives parents access to content about digital parenting, tech and digital trends among teens, online safety and more. Parents can also share and read DijiWise Moments.

ABOUT DIJIWISE

DijiWise is an app with a cause. Made for parents, by parents, we’ve created a new way for parents to stay connected to their children and encourage digital responsibility. By providing a real-time view of a child’s social media activity in one simple place, we make it easier to have conversations about the moments kids share. DijiWise is a women-led startup proud to call Detroit and St. Louis home.

Parent of Teens? Bookmark these sites

The teenage years are busy ones for parents - especially if there are siblings in the house. If you've ever found yourself in need of a dose of inspiration for a gift, meal or activity; up for good laugh, or simply wanting quick info to help with decision making, chances are the Internet or social media have been your saving grace.

What’s out there to help a busy parent of a teenager with all of the above and more? Check out this list of fun online resources we’ve found and get up to speed on sites that can save you time - or become new places where you spend your time!

For shopping, gift ideas, decorating and more: 

CoolMomPicks - It’s worth the venture off of Pinterest to hop over to this site. There’s a bit of something for everyone on Cool Mom Picks. It's a good place to hit for ideas, shopping or plain fun reading. This shopping blog for parents features products, concepts and styles that stand out and are sure to please. It's also covers categories such good, DIY, beauty, tips & tricks, and more. Everything you need to stay current and discover cool ideas for you and your kids.

For new dinner ideas with easy-to-follow recipes: 

Tasty - Buzzfeed’s Tasty is a field of dreams for any parent wanting to switch up the dinner menu routine. Or breakfast. Or dessert. (There’s even a section for comfort foods.) Viewed by millions, Tasty features fast and friendly videos of food ideas and easy-to-follow recipes. They are everywhere on social media, so chances are your teen has already experienced a craving after a seeing a video or two. Trying out these recipes is a great way to get your teen away from screen time and do something productive in the kitchen. They’re simple enough for the novice chef to have a go at helping with dinner prep or baking a new dessert to try. For some extra fun, check out Proper Tasty, the company’s Facebook channel for the British crowd in search of comfort recipes and delights.

For monitoring your kid’s social media activity and tips/education about digital responsibility and online safety: 

DijiWise - DijiWise is an app coming to market that gives parents a real-time view into their child's activity on social media networks such as Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. It takes the wonder and mystery out of what your kids are doing online or in apps on their phone, and gives you peace of mind while prompting conversations when needed. The company’s website also features Parent Central, a hub for content and resources for parents - especially parents of teens - to help navigate the notion of “digital parenting,” provide insights into apps and social networks popular with kids, encourage education about online safety and responsibility, or simply discover fun and informational topics about all things parenting.

For beginning the college search: 

Peterson’s - Choosing a college or university is one of the most important choices a teenager can make. The Internet is a natural gateway for parents and students beginning the college search, but can quickly become overwhelming with the amount of choices and information. Peterson’s is a well-organized website that is a good starting point to identify schools for undergrad, graduate, or online programs. It has a database of more than 50,000 accredited schools and 5,000 scholarships, which simplifies exploring schools and might even inspire careers or opportunities. The site’s information about college prep and entry exams may also be of interest to your high school student.

For finding an online community of like-minded parents experiencing the same things you (or who can help prepare you for things to come!): 

CafeMom - There’s something to be gained from a community of parents who are “in this together” that you’re less apt to find from Instagram posts and Facebook comments. CafeMom is the meeting place for moms, new and experienced. The site features fresh lifestyle and parenting articles, as well as hubs for videos and seeking or sharing advice. A popular function of Cafe Mom is its online community, with groups and conversations that appeal to any parent. Check it out, you might discover that the Tween Titan or Moms of Tweens groups are a good fit for you.

 

 

DijiWise Quiz: Do You Understand Teen Slang?

That OOTD is on fleek. Lol, look at what my bae said. Mupload that! 

Can you talk like a teen? We asked parents to guess what words like "bae" and "on fleek" mean, and they came up with some hilarious answers. Since understanding what our teens are saying helps us understand them better as a whole, we put together a fun quiz to help you figure out popular words and acronyms teens use.